Dealing With Unpleasant People

We are always live in a society. Gain friendship here, there, anywhere possible just to build a network. Some people say “lot of friend, prosperous life”. But some folks didn’t pay attention on maintaining trust or even abuse it. We found one of our friends playing on our back or even scamed us. Some can’t keep what they promised. This one often occurs in may cases. Now I’m going to talk about this and how to face people like this.

Let’s start with the simple one. You have a work that need to be done in a specific time. Colaborate with your friend wishing that he might make it best because he has the advantage to make it as you wish. At first he act good. Serve you well. Being nice. Based on the first chit chat he will help in any way. That’s good. Hmmm after few months he become annoying, or worse troubling you. But somehow you still need him to finish your current join work. This is tough and need to be settled soon as possible. If it’s not you will sustain the problem.

Confused by your needs but crippled slowly by your friend attidude. You need to be smart. First option is you have to rush your friend to make your work done in any way. Have a talk with him/her that you don’t like the way he/she deal with your work. Talk clearly without hiding any grievance. This will elevate misunderstanding and melt the condition. If this one doesn’t work, there is only one option. Leave your partner and get better one. Of course this one will impact on the financial because you have to pay again, different person means started on a new territory. Instead of doubling your budget you can ask refund to your ex-partner or even just small return. The reason why because it hasn’t done 100%. This case occurs on join work/project, note that. Like musician or any other artist stuff.

That’s all you need to know on how to deal with unpleasant people. Hope that’s helpful. Don’t forget to tell your friend to read this blog. Have a nice day J

Written by : Imam Wibowo